For a long time, I thought of exercise as something you squeezed in when everything else was done. If the work was finished, the kids were settled, and the house was quiet, then maybe there was time to move my body. Over the years, that mindset completely changed. Now I see fitness the same way I see maintaining a home or a business. It is not optional. It is maintenance.
Movement is what allows me to show up fully for my family, my business, and my community. Without it, everything feels harder. With it, life feels manageable and balanced.
Fitness Is Not About Appearance
I don’t exercise to chase a number on a scale or to fit into a certain size. I exercise because it gives me energy and clarity. Running a business, raising three kids, volunteering, and staying involved in the community all require stamina. Fitness gives me that stamina.
When I move regularly, I have more patience. I sleep better. I think more clearly. I’m better equipped to handle stress when it shows up. Fitness isn’t about looking a certain way. It’s about functioning well in daily life.
Running for Mental Strength
Running has been a constant in my life for years. Some runs are quiet and steady. Others are tough and push me out of my comfort zone. Either way, running clears my head in a way nothing else does.
Running teaches discipline. You show up even when motivation is low. You learn to keep going when your legs feel heavy and your mind wants to quit. That mental toughness carries into business and family life. When things get challenging, I remind myself that discomfort doesn’t last forever.
After a run, problems feel smaller. I often find solutions to things that felt overwhelming before. Running creates space for perspective.
Weight Training for Strength and Confidence
Weight training has become just as important to me as running. Strength matters, especially as we get older. Being strong helps me move through daily life with confidence. It allows me to lift, carry, and work without fear of injury.
Strength training also reminds me that progress happens gradually. You don’t lift heavy overnight. You build slowly through consistency. That lesson applies to everything. Whether it’s restoring a home, growing a business, or supporting a family, small efforts add up over time.
There’s something empowering about feeling physically strong. It translates into confidence in other areas of life.
HIIT and Staying Efficient
High-intensity interval training fits perfectly into a busy lifestyle. Some days there just isn’t time for a long workout, but that doesn’t mean movement gets skipped. HIIT workouts are efficient and effective.
They challenge both the body and the mind. You work hard for short periods, recover, and repeat. That rhythm mirrors life. There are seasons of intensity followed by moments to catch your breath. Learning to manage both is essential.
HIIT reminds me that you don’t need endless time to take care of yourself. You just need intention.
Yoga for Balance and Awareness
Power yoga plays a huge role in keeping me balanced. I attend classes at Studio B in Linglestown, and that time on the mat is something I protect. Yoga demands presence. You can’t rush through it. You have to breathe, focus, and listen to your body.
Yoga has taught me awareness. Some days I feel strong and steady. Other days I feel tight or off balance. Both are okay. Yoga reminds me that progress is not linear and that grace matters.
That awareness shows up in my daily life. I’m better at noticing when I need rest, when I need movement, and when I need to slow down.
Movement Supports Everything Else
Fitness supports every role I play. It gives me the energy to run MarDav Enterprises with focus and clarity. It helps me stay present for my family. It allows me to volunteer and serve without feeling depleted.
When I don’t move for a while, I feel it quickly. I’m more tense. Less patient. Less focused. Movement brings me back to myself. It reminds me that taking care of my body is not selfish. It’s responsible.
Just like homes need regular upkeep, our bodies need consistent care. Ignoring that maintenance only makes things harder down the road.
Consistency Over Perfection
I don’t work out perfectly every week. Some weeks are busier than others. Some workouts are better than others. What matters is consistency. Showing up regularly, even in small ways, makes all the difference.
Fitness doesn’t have to be complicated. It just has to be part of your life. When movement becomes routine, it stops feeling like another task and starts feeling like support.
Setting an Example
As a mom, I want my kids to see that taking care of yourself matters. I want them to understand that movement is a normal part of a healthy life. Not something you do out of guilt, but something you do out of respect for your body.
I hope they see that strength, discipline, and balance are built over time. And that caring for yourself allows you to care better for others.
Show Up Daily
Movement is maintenance. It keeps me grounded, strong, and resilient. It allows me to show up fully in every area of my life.
Running clears my mind. Weight training builds strength. HIIT keeps me efficient. Yoga brings balance and awareness. Together, they form a foundation that supports everything else I do.
Fitness is not something I fit in when life allows it. It’s something that allows my life to function well. And for me, that makes movement completely non-negotiable.